Just the way you are

Why do you love to hanging around with your friends, mate?
The way they make you happy?
The way they treat you?

As for me, i love hanging around with my friends because they never force me to be anyone else or anything that i dont like.
I dont have many friends, mate. I only have several friends, but i always knew that they're dependable and i can fully trust them.
With them, i am me.

Why do you love your lover, my dear friend?
Because of her face his nose?
The way he laugh the way her smile?
The way she looked at you the way he talked to you?
Anything could be possible.

As for me, i would not being such a hypocrite with saying that face doesnt matter.
I do like a gorgeous face, who doesnt?
But that doesnt important.

The most important thing is if that guy can treat me right and making me comfortable as myself.

Yes, for anything that's worth, YOURSELF is the most important thing.
Dont ever change yourself in order to make everyone likes you.
Please remember this my dear friend, you CANT make all people like you.
Respect yourself, show good respect for another and the other will respect you as well.
Dont tortured yourself to be someone you dont like.
Dont ever change yourself for anyone's shake.

My dear friend,
do you still feel like you're not you are?
do you feel like you're changing to someone you dont like?
You friends make you felt that way?
Your lover make you think that way?
Then you have to reconsider wheter they're good for you or not.
You can always find anyone who will love you for yourself if you're willing to.

Q: "Why do you in love with her?"
A: "Its because thats her. I wouldnt in love if thats not her"

Who do you think can answer the question that way..
Your parents,
Your siblings,
Your bestfriend,
Your true love,

Because remember my dear friend,
Anyone who truly good for you, always loves you just the way you are.
Yes, YOU ARE AMAZING JUST THE WAY YOU ARE.. -K

always need the first leap

I suddenly remembered my last conversation with my friend.
She said that she still in love with someone that she doesnt even know wheter he know her that she love him
She even never talk to him directly, but she gave almost all her heart to him unconditionally that she could cry for no reason only to know that she still have those feelings.
She's not the only one.

Then the other day, i talked to one of my friend and she said almost exactly the same thing.
That she in love with someone that she doesnt even know wheter he know her that she love him.
But this one's better.
She already knew that the guy remembered her name even she never looked at him directly and talked to him normally.
She's not alone.

I knew this girl, she's been hiding his feeling to this guy since almost 4 years ago.
She never try to talk to him or even getting to know him.
She always looked at him changing his girlfriend one by one.
She never try.


I believe every each or one of you ever shared the same feeling.
Me as well.

We, women, prefer to stand and watch than make a first move.
For eastern people like us, of course that's not an easy thing to move and told him your feelings.
Thats why we always felt like we're imprisoned by our own feelings by thinking wheter he likes us or not.
Thats turtoring.

Then i remembered, one of my friend, a simple country girl, she said to me when i met her one year ago.
"you can always tell him your feelings, not to make him yours. just so he know that somebody loved him."
Tell him, not always in order to make him yours.
Tell him, and you'll be free for at least one burden.
Tell him, and you've got nothing to lose.
Tell him, and you can move on with smile.

I know exactly, that its hard to do.
but if you couldnt make the first move. you can always make the first LEAP or you'll never get there. -K